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Thursday, July 31, 2008

[ItsAllAboutMeMan] More Glurge

Ohhhh myyy dayyyys i swear i almost cried when i read this... read it


WHAT COME AROUND, GOES AROUND!

Let's see if you send it back. We all know or knew someone like this!!

One day, when I was a freshman in high school,

I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

His name was George.

It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd."

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.

They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.

He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes

my heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him his glasses, I said," Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives."

He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

There was a big smile on his face.

It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.

As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.

He said he had gone to private school before now.

I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.

He said yes.


We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know George, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was George with the huge stack of books again.

I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!"

He just laughed and handed me all his books and told me to carry them.

Over the next four years, George and I became best friends...  Whenever he thought somebody looked at him funny, he gave me a little cash to sort things out with them.

When we were seniors we began to think about college.

George decided on Yale and I was going to Duke.

I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a cheerleader and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

George graduated near the bottom of our class, but that didn't stop him from being accepted at a prestigious Ivy League school.

I teased him all the time about how I mistakenly thought he was a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak

Graduation day, I saw George.

He looked great.

He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.

He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous! Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.

"Thanks," he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began

"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.

Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...

I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.

I saw his mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

Not until that moment did I realize its depth. Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person's life. For better or for worse.

Have you guessed who George is yet?  That's right, he went on to become the president of the United States, and he never forgot the good turn I did for him. Now the company I own has several no-bid contracts worth several billion dollars for rebuilding New Orleans and Iraq.  We might even do a little work towards achieving that goal some day.

God puts us all in each others lives t o impact one another in some way.

Look for Good in others.

You now have two choices, you can:

1) Pass this on to your friends or

2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.

As you can see, I took choice number 1. "Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."

There is no beginning or end... Yesterday is history.

Tomorrow is a mystery.

Today is a gift.

It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.

If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends.



WHEN YOU RECEIVE THIS LETTER, YOU"RE REQUESTED TO SEND IT TO AT LEAST 10 PEOPLE, INCLUDING THE PERSON WHO
SENT IT TO YOU.



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Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Re: [ILoveIshtar] I have added you to my friends network today! - and a question or two from your humble moderator

Darn it, how do they slip through?  This is why I require approval of new members, to avoid this.  I'll send girlvdrider away.

Speaking of new members, there are two more. I'm very happy about this...

Somebody was going to throw an Ishtar theme party - did that come off?  If so, please tell me about it. I think maybe I'll do that for my next birthday in September. Then I'll have something new to post to this list.

I was going to play some of my songs, maybe I'll do Rogers and Clarke songs instead!

Just out of curiosity - Isthar seems to be for songwriters what Spinal Tap is for people who've been in bands... are there people here who regard themselves as songwriters? Is Ishtar special for you because of that?  Do you think your songs are worse/as good as/ better than Chuck and Lyle's?

Please, don't be shy!

On Wed, Jul 30, 2008 at 7:34 PM, girlvdrider <girlvdrider@yahoo.com> wrote:

I created this cool friends network and added you to my friends network. Hit-up now:
http://lucylouhd.zoomshare.com/files/girlfriend.htm




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Monday, July 28, 2008

Re: [ILoveIshtar] Welcome Aboard!

>On Sat, Jul 26, 2008 at 9:47 AM, Ron K. <ronkal1976@verizon.net> wrote:

>Direct them (new members) to my "Ishtar" website.
 
absolutely!

I'd also encourage new people (and old, if you haven't been there yet) to visit a couple of other sites:

The Homepage for the Waiting for Ishtar documentary:

http://waitingforishtar.wordpress.com/

Jef Leeson's awesome Ishtar fan page:

http://www.ishtarmovie.com/

Bob Helbig's Fan Fiction Sequel, (Telling The Truth Can be) Dangerous Business:

http://www.angelfire.com/pa3/bobhelbig/Telling_The_Truth_Can_Be_Dangerous_Business_index.html

There is lots of evidence out there for intelligent life on planet earth (Ishtar fans) - but it takes some time to dig it out. I have the time, I've done the digging, and I'm happy to share what I learned.

I'm going to close by stealing a comment left on the Waiting for Ishtar site, I thought it beautifully summed up much of what I love about Ishtar:

Mark Oakley Says:

Well now! This is a funny thing. I never, EVER thought I'd see the day when Ishtar would get an honest treatment. You can measure the integrity of a person in whether they form their own opinions or dance along with group-think. Ishtar is an excellent yardstick in this respect, though I never liked to use it very often as it was sort of depressing most of the time. We live in a world filled with many frightened sleep walkers, and this is a horrible, uncharitable thing to consider.

I saw Ishtar when I was seventeen, and I had no expectations whatsoever because at the time I was a sleep walker of my sort who was incapable of plugging into the notion of hip and cool at any level of society. I didn't know that there was a public opinion with regard to movies, or that one was subtly required to adopt these attitudes. I quite enjoyed Ishtar, but I didn't REALLY REALLY enjoy it per se. That came later as my awareness of the world expanded and I started meeting these wonderful, beautiful creative people who had tons of passion but only moderate talent. People who would never make it big, but who were valid, vital humans nonetheless. Ishtar is bitter-sweet, sad and encouraging and funny and gentle, honest and delusional. It has all the qualities of positive, fragile yet un-stoppable humanity. Chuck and Lyle weren't the sort who would ever write a Simon & Garfunkel song, but I realized at some point that they *were* the sort of people who Simon & Garfunkel might very well have written songs about.

Anyway, some years later I rented Ishtar with a friend, telling him, "You should see this. I remember that it was quite good and I've never understood why it has become so shunned by popular opinion."

–In retrospect, it seems to me that it was more than just the huge budget which turned public opinion against the film. I think instead that it might have had largely to do with the fact that in some ways, High school never really ends for many people. –That is, geeky people like Chuck & Lyle, who are not as talented and not as hip or savvy. . , for some reason those are exactly the kids who are punished by the purveyors of popular acceptance. The popular kids killed Ishtar.

So we watched the film. It has it's flaws, but Oh My GOD! I realized then, (at that point I was in my twenties), that it had some points of utter genius which are almost NEVER seen in film. I didn't realize it as a kid, but it its message was powerful; "Follow Your Bliss." It had Joseph Campbell, Alan Watts and Ray Bradbury written all over it. –And not in that sickly Feel-Good Disney manner which doesn't work. –If you follow your soul, it will carry you to magnificent places of great value, but unlike the false Feel-Good message, those places will often not conform to the narrowly defined, popularly accepted version of success of American Dream fortune as seen on magazine covers. –One's true journey might stop at such places, (why not? Happy, powerful people are often paid attention to), but that is never the goal. Instead, the true journey will take you to incredible, unexpected places, through terrifying challenges, and will teach lessons of much deeper value.

I think that is what horrified many viewers and reviewers of Ishtar. –The popular kids really are the ones who dictate that which is considered proper and 'cool', and the idea of breaking with popular acceptance in order to make difficult journeys for non-material reward is anathema to their mind-set. Abandon slave-hood to popular rule in order to grow spiritually? Argh! Of course it must be shunned! The slaves must not grow strong, must not escape! –And especially when you connect the psychological dots to those 44 million 1980's dollars spent in making the film. . .

Oh, god, Ishtar was an awesome movie!

For anybody who liked Ishtar, there's a less accessible, but in my opinion, even more powerful movie with a similar message. –Also critically panned, also written by a praise-sung genius, and also featuring an otherwise blockbuster cast, (Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks.) Go watch, "Joe v.s. the Volcano".




 
 
----- Original Message -----
From: matt love
Sent: Friday, July 25, 2008 11:55 PM
Subject: [ILoveIshtar] Welcome Aboard!

I started requiring moderator approval for this group to prevent
spam... so when people want to join, they write a few words about why
they want to join. I approved four new members this month - I ask you,
are not these declarations heartwarming:

Comment from user:
Because I'm one of the few people I know who actually GET IT. I have
very few people I
can talk with about it, this group would be perfect!
Three words: Hot Fudge Love!

Comment from user:
big fan of ishtar ... been working for years to reverse the widely held
misconception of this movie

Comment from user:
I thought I was all alone in this world -- the sole lover of Ishtar. I
can't tell you what it means to me to have found a community.

Comment from user:
I'm a big Ishtar fan. Sadly I didn't see it in the theatre but through
the magic of VHS!

****

Now that they are here, it would be great to have something new to
tell them... the domestic DVD will soon be out... the long awaited
soundtrack album or tribute album, or the Waiting for Ishtar
documentary are soon to be out... but I can say no such thing, I
haven't heard a thing, anybody here heard any exciting news?

I've promised new members that they wouldn't get swamped with email,
but at the same time, I also said it's a warm, welcoming environment,
so if anybody has anything warm and welcoming, please say it.

I'll start by saying "welcome aboard, new members!" Hot Fudge Love, indeed!

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